16 ways to live the French girl aesthetic.
Romanticize life and be in your feminine era!
If you desire to posses a bit of je ne sais quoi and experience a life that oozes elegance, here are 16 everyday things that will transform your life!
Inspired by 35mm black and white film photos of model Taylor LaShae.
Let’s start with MINDSET:
Where every important decision of how we choose to live begins. If you had to summarize this, it would be: live a little slower.
Start the day at a relaxed pace.
Give yourself time to wake up (and I don’t mean staying in bed hitting snooze 5 times) by investing in yourself before productivity sets in! Stretch, make yourself a beverage and meal, spend some time reading for writing, and at all costs: avoid scrolling on your phone immediately.Be present and intentional.
Set the phone down and observe what’s around you. Spend less time scrolling social media and bingeing shows - instead indulge in art, beauty, books, film and food. Be fully present with the people you’re in the company of!Not rushing through the day.
Hustle culture is so very American and I’m so tired of it. Rather, give yourself extra time between engagements and avoid stacking your schedule, and when you’re able, consider walking or taking public transportation instead of driving.Enjoying long, leisurely lunch breaks.
The French take this seriously! They love food, and they love their lunch breaks. Don’t sit at your desk and work while eating - intentionally step away. Even better if you can manage to get some fresh air or a walk in!
Model Taylor LaShae
A picture perfect example of French girl aesthetic.
Photographed on 35mm film in Nashville, TN
Kodak TMAX 400
Next, consider your ENVIRONMENT.
The things and places you surround yourself with and will be drawing inspiration from every day.
Admiring old architecture.
Whether around your neighborhood, your home, or the buildings downtown in your city, take time to admire the architecture of where you live! One of the best things about Paris is the stunning, historic buildings.Fill your home with timeless, elegant pieces.
Consider visiting antique stores or flea markets to pick up classy and timeless bits and pieces. Examples: things made of real gold or silver, brass, handcrafted wood items, crystal and glass. Hang paintings or photographs, or display sculptures. Coffee table books on topics you love to occasionally pick up and page through. Fresh flowers.Host dinner parties and indulge in good wine.
Meals are an important part of life in France, and food and wine is always best enjoyed with those you love! Get in the habit of inviting people over for dinner.
Let’s now get into BEAUTY.
The French girl aesthetic is all about elegance and effortlessness. Here are the best ways to attain that.
Take care of your skin.
Invest into non-toxic products, moisturize your skin, and don’t you dare sleep in your makeup! Don’t overexpose yourself to the sun (especially without protection. And remember that what you eat and drink makes a huge impact on your skin!Minimal makeup.
The everyday look is fresh, awake and healthy! There’s no need to spend 15-30 minutes countering and highlighting and drawing on a dramatic eye each morning.Highlight your best natural features.
We spend so much time copying people and trying to be anyone but ourselves. Rather than striving to turn your looks into something so far from what you truly possess, work with what you have!Any haircut will do, but you can’t go wrong with a classic French bob.
It’s fairly easy to style, and it frames the face nicely.
Finally, let’s talk about STYLE & WARDROBE
Blazers and simple, tailored pieces.
It’s easy to incorporate them for a semi-casual look while still looking put together.Focus on effortless and comfortable.
Outfits that you can comfortably spend most of the day in.Black and neutral colors are your easiest go-to.
But if you feel confident, add some vibrant colors or prints into your outfit!Avoid athletic wear at all costs.
In France the only people wearing athletic wear are… athletes, or people working out.
And one final thing…
Stop overthinking — Start simple.
Effortlessness is key. Choose what resonates with you and embrace it! It’s a process for you to learn as you go.
If you’re looking for more French girl aesthetic inspiration, you can view film photos of my trip to Paris by clicking here!